All companionship can consist only in the strengthening of two neighboring solitudes, whereas everything that one is wont to call giving oneself is by nature harmful to companionship: for when a person abandons himself, he is no longer anything, and when two people both give themselves up in order to come close to each other,…
Judye Hess, now professor Emerita, was a core faculty member at the California Institute of Integral Studies,teaching Couples Counseling and Family Dynamics for 30+ years. She has a private practice in Berkeley,CA. where she sees couples and families, almost exclusively. Judye is the co-author of “Dual Dwelling Duos: An Alternative for Long-term Relationships” which was…
Dr. Judye Hess as guest therapist on “Ask the Shrinks” radio show on KGGV (8/27/15), speaking on “The Dual Dwelling Duos: An Alternative for Long-term Relationships” Based on article by Judye Hess, Ph.D. and Padma Catell, Ph.D., originally printed in Journal of Couples Therapy, vol 10, number 3/4, 2001
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